The Awakening: Edna's

Steven Schwartz January 3, 1997 Mr. Speight


The society of Grand Isle places many expectations on its women to belong to
men and be subordinate to their children. Edna Pontellier's society, therefore,
abounds with "mother-women," who "idolized their children, worshipped their
husbands, and esteemed it to a holy privilege to efface themselves as
individuals". The characters of Adele Ratignolle and Mademoiselle Reisz
represent what society views as the suitable and unsuitable woman figures.
Mademoiselle Ratignolle as the ideal Grand Isle woman, a home-loving mother and
a good wife, and Mademoiselle Reisz as the old, unmarried, childless, musician
who devoted her life to music, rather than a man. Edna oscillates between the
two identities until she awakens to the fact that she needs to be an individual,
but encounters the resistance of society's standards to her desire.
Kate Chopin carefully, though subtly, establishes that Edna does not neglect
her children, but only her mother-woman image. Chopin portrays this idea by
telling the reader "…Mrs. Pontellier was not a mother-woman. The mother-woman
seemed to prevail that summer at Grand Isle". Edna tries on one occasion to
explain to Adele how she feels about her children and how she feels about
herself, which greatly differs from the mother-woman image. She says: "I would
give up the unessential; I would give my money; I would give my life for my
children; but I wouldn't give myself. I can't make it more clear; it's only
something I am beginning to comprehend, which is revealing itself to me." This
specifically contrasts the mother-woman idea of self-sacrificing for your
husband and children. Also, the "something . . . which is revealing itself"
does not become completely clear to Edna herself until just before the end, when
she does indeed give her life, but not her self for her children's sake.
Although Edna loves her children she does not confuse her own life with theirs.
Similarly to Edna's relationship with her children is that with her husband,
Leonce. The Grand Isle society defines the role of wife as full devotion
towards their husband and to self-sacrafice for your husband. Edna never adhered
to the societies definition, even at the beginning of the novel. For example,
the other ladies at Grand Isle "all declared that Mr. Pontellier was the best
husband in the world." And "Mrs. Pontellier was forced to admit she knew of
none better". By using words like "forced" and "admit" Chopin illustrates
Edna's true feelings towards Leonce. That she married him not because there are
none better, but because there are also none worse. Edna's leaving Leonce's
mansion is another important detail when considering her rebellion against the
mother-woman idea. By moving to her own residence, Edna takes a colossal step
towards autonomy, a direct violation of the mother-woman image. Throughout The
Awakening, Edna increasingly distances herself from the image of the mother-
woman, until her suicide, which serves as the total opposite of the mother-woman
image.
Adele Ratignolle and Mademoiselle Reisz, the two important female subsidary
characters, provide the two different identities Edna associates with. Adele
serves as the perfect "mother-woman" in The Awakening, being both married and
pregnant, but Edna does not follow Adele's footsteps. For Edna, Adele appears
unable to perceive herself as an individual human being. She possesses no sense
of herself beyond her role as wife and mother, and therefore Adele exists only
in relation to her family, not in relation to herself or the world. Edna
desires individuality, and the identity of a mother-woman does not provide that.
In contrast to Adele Ratignolle, Mademoiselle Reisz offers Edna an alternative
to the role of being yet another mother-woman. Mademoislle Reisz has in
abundance the autonomy that Adele completely lacks. But Reisz's life lacks love,
while Adele abounds in it. Mademoiselle Reisz's loneliness makes clear that an
adequate life cannot build altogether upon autonomy. Although she has a secure
sense of her own individuality and autonomy, her life lacks love, friendship, or
warmth.
What Edna chooses for her identity is a combination of Adele Ratignolle and
Mademoiselle Reisz. More honest in self-awareness than Adele, more dependent on
human relationships than Reisz.
In The Awakening the woman's existance intertwines with her maternal nature.
Edna's sense of herself as a complete person makes impossible her role of wife
and mother as defined by her society; yet she discovers that her role of mother
also makes impossible her continuing development as an autonomous individual.
So her thoughts as she walks into the sea comment profoundly on the identity
problems that women face: "She thought of Leonce and