Teenage Stress


Stress is basically, defined as an applied force or system of forces that tends to strain or deform a body. A mentally or emotionally disruptive or upsetting condition occurring in response to adverse external influences and capable of affecting physical health. Teenagers today have a lot of stress because of a lot of different reasons. However, there are three main things in my opinion that cause stress for teenagers which are school related issues, relationships, and peer pressure. These things can cause teenagers to do things that they thought they were not capable of, which could be good or bad, depending on the situation.


Firstly, school related issues are the main cause for teenage stress these days. It can be caused by them being pushed to hard by their parents or teachers, because for some a lot is expected of them. It can also be caused by them doing so badly in school they gave up all hope of them doing something worthwhile with their lives or it could be caused by them just not living up to their own standards.


Secondly, another cause of teenage stress is their relationships. Relationship stress can be caused by them not living up to their partner’s expectation or just plainly by them breaking up with someone that they thought they really did care for. Also, it can be caused by an individual liking someone a lot and the feeling is not mutual. All of these aspects can cause teenagers to feel like their in way over their heads.


Finally, the last main stress causer in my opinion is peer pressure. Peer pressure makes teens do things they don’t want to do but feel like they have to do it. It is caused by teenagers wanting to fit in with their peers so badly that they would do anything. Thus, becoming desperate. For example, it is the main cause for teenage drug abuse, teenage drinking, and teenage sex. All of these things are awful for teenagers and a lot of the people who do these things start by not wanting to do them, but do them anyway because they feel pressured to do so and because of that they get addicted and can’t stop later on in life. Another reason teenagers become stressful are because, all of these things cost money that a lot of them don’t have so this leads them to start stealing, lying, and cheating to help support their addiction that they would not have in the first place had it not been for peer pressure. Also, if teenagers try to resist this peer pressure they risk being turned into an outcast which no teenager wants to be.


In conclusion, teenagers have to deal with a lot of stress caused by three main factors. There is no way around this stress that teens must deal with on a daily basis, so the only thing they can do is turn stress into motivation for them to do positive things with. If all teenagers were motivated, mostly everybody would become successful in life but that is a lot easier said than done. In the end, a lot of hard work is needed to get through all of this.