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Fantasy vs. Reality
Sometime in our lives, we have wished for things we don\'t have. No
matter how hard we wished on the star or a candle, our wishes never seemed to be
answered. We have all felt that bitter disappointment on Christmas morning when
we finally realized that we were never going to be able to have what we want.
This is the same exact feelings that the characters in Cisneros\' The House on
Mango Street. Unlike us, the disappointment for these characters last
throughout their childhood. Esperanza, Rachel, Nenny, Sally, and Lucy are among
the kids growing up on Mango Street. They all long for friendship, love, and a
better life, but all these kids face are the harsh reality of the "real world."
In the society that Esperanza and her friends live in, love takes a back seat
when it comes to relationships.
"Someday, I will have a best friend all my own. One I can tell my
secrets to. One who will understand my jokes without my having to explain
them." These are the longing words of Esperanza. While growing up on Mango
Street, Esperanza finds herself in a community that she feels she doesn\'t belong
to. With all her heart, she longs for a true friend that she can tell her
dreams to and will understand her for it. These wishes seem easy enough to
grant, but Esperanza soon finds out that there is more to friendship. "If you
give me five dollars, I will be your friend forever." Esperanza discovers that
she can not have anything for nothing. Rachel and Lucy sure enough become her
friends, but only after she helped them pay for the bike. Esperanza never does
truly find a real friend who shares the same goal as she does because all the
friends she has have more problems than her. For instance, Sally was a friend
for whom Esperanza cared for. When Esperanza was raped, Sally was not there to
help her and when Esperanza tried to prevent Sally from making a mistake, Sally
told her to leave. All Esperanza wanted was a friendship that would help her
escape her life, but all she ended up with were friendships that reminded her of
her broken dreams because in her society nothing was given for free and the
people she was associated with didn\'t have the same goals as she did.
Another one of those broken dreams was the concept of love. Esperanza
was not the only one who longed for a man\'s endless love. Marin, Esperanza,
Rafaela, and Sally are all "waiting for a car to stop, a star to fall, someone
to change her life." These girls are all waiting for "prince charming" to come
and sweep them off their feet. They believe that the right man will come and
love them for who they are and take them away to a nice house. Marin says that
she will move in and marry her boyfriend, but the harsh reality is that she will
only be sent to a worse life. Cisneros uses the story of Rapunzel to describe
Rafaela\'s life. She longs to be free of the "tower" and do as she pleases, but
all she gets is a husband who keeps her locked up in the apartment and that is
where she will remain. In Sally\'s case, she wants a man to love her and she
thinks she can achieve that by using her body. Sally eventually gets married to
a man who provides her with riches, but she will never be an individual. All of
these outcomes are the results of the girls not doing anything for themselves.
They are not willing to, or don\'t have the strength to reach out for what they
want and try to achieve it. Esperanza, too also longs for the love of a man.
She thinks that love is a fairy tale. Nothing about love that was told to her
turned out to be true after she experienced what men thought of as love.
In all respects, the "thing" that the characters in The House on Mango
Street strived for was a better life. This proved true in the case of Esperanza.
A fairy tale element that was used was the Old Lady who had so many children.
The old lady would just gripe about her misfortune and neglected what was
granted to her. Her fate was the result of her own doing because she wasn\'t
willing to face the hardships and make do with what she had. Esperanza has
always dreamed of living
Topics Related to Fantasy vs. Reality
Chicano literature, The House on Mango Street, Esperanza, Television in the Philippines, American literature, Series, Fade Away, Esperanza Rising
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