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Attention Deficit Disorder
Attection Deficit Disorder
By: Ryan Fish
To be nobody-but-myself--in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make
you everybody else-means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can
fight, and never stop fighting.
-E.E. Cummings, 1958
Attention Deficit Disorder is a long and some what mysterious sounding name that tries to describe something you probably already call Hyperactivity. But, attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) is much more that Hyperactivity.
History of ADD
In 1902 children who demonstrated many of the symptoms that are today part of attention
deficit disorder would be described as children with "morbid defects in moral control". In
the 1940\'s, children exhibiting this form of behavior were diagnosed with "brain injured
syndrome" because children with brain injuries from disease or trauma behave in much
the same way. Any child displaying these behaviors regardless of evidence of brain injury
were diagnosed as having brain injury syndrome.
What Causes ADD?
ADD may be caused by a abnormally from trauma, disease, fetal exposure to alcohol and
tobacco, or high levels of Lead. In parts of the brain there is a diminished activity in the
morphology and frontal region of the brain.
Statistics of ADD
Most of the diagnosis is at childhood. Experts say that over 2 million (3 to 5%) children
have ADD. About 50% of these 2 million children who have ADD are believed to be
underachievers. Also with this 50% the children are believed to have social and academic
difficulties. About 40% of the 2 million have a 40% IQ discrepancy. The glad part is that
80% - 90% of these children receive medication for there problem, but most of them still
need behavior modifications. Most schools help with that.
Behaviors Observed in ADD
Some characteristics are:
-Makes careless mistakes in school work.
-Dislikes tasks that involve sustaining mental effort.
-Has difficulty sustaining attention.
-Does not seem to listen when spoken to.
-Often loses things.
-Does not follow through on instructions.
-Has difficulty organizing tasks.
-Often forgetful in daily activities.
Six or more of the following symptoms will result in the diagnosis of peractivity-
Fidgets or squirms Often talks excessively
Often leaves seat in classroom Often blurts out answers
Often runs about inappropriately Often has difficulty waiting turn
Difficulty playing quietly Often interrupts others
Also while the person with ADD gets older the Impulsivity gets more consistent. Usually
girls don\'t show Impulsivity as much as guys.
How To Help ADD In The Classroom
Researchers have identified classroom characteristics which promote success for many
children that have ADD:
-shorter work periods
-small teacher to pupil ratio
-more individualized instruction
-use of positive reinforcements
The teachers attitude is very helpful if she/he has the following characteristics:
-positive academic expectations
-frequent monitoring and checking of work
-clarity in giving directions
-warmth, patience and humor
-consistency and firmness
-knowledge of different behavioral interventions
-willingness to work with a special education teacher
ADD In The Classroom
School is where the characteristics of ADD are first noticed. Most tasks in school are
hard for a person with ADD. The student has difficulty: sitting in his/her seat,
understanding directions, and often distracted.
How To Diagnose ADD
One of the most common ways to diagnose ADD is for the person to stare at a clock. In
doing this the doctor looks for three or more of the following:
-Difficulty sustaining attention at the clock.
-Often fidgets or moves excessively.
-Difficulty following directions.
-Does not seem to listen when spoken to.
-Often distracted by other things around him/her.
Treating ADD With Common Drugs
The most common way of treating ADD is giving him/her drugs (exp: syler, dexedrine,
and the most common ritelin). There is non-drug related ways of chemically changing
the physiological imbalance of the brain. One of them is a school that is completely
devoted to ADD. Another one is electrical impulses sent to the brain to control his/her
motor skills in both mental and physical. With electrical impulse treatment it seems to
work better than drug related practice.
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